Happy (belated) New Year y’all!

Lately I’ve been getting a lot of DMs asking “Girl, where you at? You haven’t blogged in forever!”.

Yes, unfortunately even the most awesome bloggers get busy sometimes. Before I get into complaining about how hard “adulting” is, and how it’s keeping me away from my blog…


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Diaries of a Christian Feminist: Yes, we do exist!

Anyone who knows me, knows that I believe in two things: my faith and my African feminist cause.


For as long as I can remember God has been the focal point in my life but I only truly made the conscious decision to be saved in my early teens.


This was a result of having the pleasure of going to a Christian school in my primary years, where I learned just how much God truly loves me.

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Have we lost the true essence of International Women’s Day?


As many people know, the 8th of March was International Women’s Day. A day that’s set apart to commemorate the movement for women’s rights world over.

In Zambia, Women’s Day fell on a Thursday, two weeks ago, with Youth day the following Monday. Because of this, the President declared it a 5 day long weekend. (Economically a terrible move, but that’s a topic for another day and another blogger).

I spent part of my Women’s Day doing what any overzealous 21 year old feminist would do: reading up on the history of Women’s Day and the movements that lead to its commemoration.

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How about a little more respect and a little less misogyny?


It’s no secret that all too often, men are intimidated by powerful women. This is especially true in African/third world societies. From female politicians, to business women, to any woman in a powerful position; backlash can be expected. The fact there are women who are successful, having spent their lives setting up goals and succeeding in reaching them; challenges the very notion of misogyny in patriarchal societies.

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QOTD: So, when did catcalling become okay?


From time in memorial one form of catcalling or another, is something women have had to endure. It is however apparent that in recent years catcalling has become more aggressive, more vulgar, and more offensive.

While the definition of catcalling varies from dictionary to dictionary within the context it can be defined as:


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